Join Our Singles Database

This database is a private collection of profiles of adults in our community.

We store information about each person, such as their age, city, interests, and relationship goals.

This is not a dating app.
If you join the database, you will not be able to view other profiles.
Only the Harrington Matchmaking team can see the database.

This database of profiles is the first place we look when we search for matches for our clients.

To join, you will fill out a detailed form and upload three photos of yourself.

We accept database members from all over the world.

While we are known for our work supporting and connecting neurodivergent adults, we work with a diverse client base across a wide range of backgrounds and experiences.

This database may be a good fit if:

• You are comfortable with us reaching out if and when there is a potential match

• You are open to the possibility of meeting in person for a first date if a strong match comes up

• You understand this process can take time and are not in a rush

• You understand that we have a large database, and we may never reach out with a match

This may not be the best fit if:

• You want us to actively search for matches specifically for you, rather than waiting to see if you are a fit for one of our clients

• You are looking for regular or ongoing match introductions

• You would benefit from coaching or consistent support in your dating life

If you are looking for consistent or curated matches, or more hands-on support, you may want to explore our services.

Our six-month matchmaking packages include coaching, a guaranteed number of matches selected specifically for you, and a dedicated matchmaker/coach who supports you throughout the process.

For neurodivergent adults seeking a more supported, community-based option without the price point of private 1:1 matchmaking or coaching, we recommend joining our Constellations membership.

Questions? Contact us or click the icon in the lower right corner of this page.

ou’ll fill out the form on this page. It is detailed and typically takes about 10–20 minutes to complete.

You will also be asked to upload three photos, including one full-body photo, so it’s helpful to have these ready before you begin.

After you submit the form, your information is added to our database and we create a private profile for you.

We will send your profile to you to review and approve before sharing it with any of our clients.

If we believe you could be a strong match for one of our clients, we will contact you first to ask if you are interested before making an introduction.

Some people are never contacted after joining the database. This is because we may not have a client at that time who is a strong match.

Joining the database does not mean you will receive a match.

Many people in the database are never contacted.

If you would like more support in meeting people, there are other ways to work with us.

Our six-month matchmaking packages include coaching and a guaranteed number of matches selected specifically for you. A dedicated matchmaker/coach supports you throughout the process.

For neurodivergent adults seeking a more supported, community-based option without the price point of private 1:1 matchmaking or coaching, we recommend joining our Constellations membership.

Questions? Contact us or click the icon in the lower right corner of this page.

No. If you have received this link, you are eligible to join the database at no cost.

If we reach out to you in the future about a potential match, there is still no obligation to pay anything. Again, we do not offer any guarantee that you will receive any match introductions once you join.

If you would like to become a client and have us actively search for matches specifically for you, there is, of course, a fee for our matchmaking services.

Our Constellations membership, which offers a structured community and additional support crafted for neurodivergent adults, is also a paid program with an annual membership fee.

Our database includes people from a wide range of backgrounds. We are especially known for being inclusive of neurodivergent adults, individuals with disabilities, and those who may feel on the fringe of traditional social or dating spaces — though all are welcome.

We are LGBTQ+ friendly.

On average, most individuals in our database are between the ages of 21 and 59.

Yes. You are welcome to complete the form with a parent, caregiver, or support person if that is helpful.

While you are welcome to join the database, individuals with support needs often benefit more from our Constellations program, which offers a more structured, supported experience.