Introduce yourself.
We’ll keep you in mind.
Did you know you don’t have to be a matchmaking client to go on a date with one of ours?
Our Singles Database is a way to introduce yourself to Harrington Matchmaking and tell us a little about who you are and the kind of relationship you’re hoping to find.
When we’re searching for matches for our matchmaking clients, we also look through our Singles Database. If we think you and a client could be a good fit, we may reach out to see if you’re interested in learning more.
How it works
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Tell us about yourself
Complete our questionnaire so we can get to know you and what you’re looking for.
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Meet with our team
We’ll schedule a 30- to 45-minute screening conversation over Zoom to learn more about you and answer your questions.
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We’ll keep you in mind
If we identify a potential match with one of our matchmaking clients, we’ll contact you. You can decide whether you’d like to explore the introduction.
A few things to know
Joining the Singles Database is not the same as hiring a matchmaker. We won’t actively search for someone on your behalf, and you may never be contacted about a match.
There is a one-time $350 fee to join, with no ongoing membership fees.
From the founder
“We’re proud to have built, one screening at a time, one of the most extensive and inclusive databases of adults who have struggled to find their footing in conventional dating. What unites this community isn’t a diagnosis. It’s the desire to be met where they truly are, and to find someone who values the life they actually live.
We can only responsibly support a limited number of matchmaking clients. The database lets us get to know more adults and widen the pool of matches for our clients. We hope it creates more chances for the stars to align.”
Kate Inez Harrington
Owner, Harrington Matchmaking
Before you join
What is the Singles Database?
A list of single adults across the United States who are open to being considered as a match for our matchmaking clients. It doesn’t mean we’re your matchmaker, and we’re not searching on your behalf. We reach out only if we feel strongly you may be a match for a client.
Is this a dating app? Can I see or contact other people in the database?
No. There’s nothing to browse and no way to message anyone. The database is a private collection of profiles we review when matching for a client. For more opportunities, consider Constellations or a matchmaking package.
What does it cost?
A one-time $350 fee. It covers a screening conversation and your place in the database we check first when matching for clients. It isn’t a subscription and doesn’t buy an introduction. If the fee is a barrier, tell us before you pay. A limited number of waivers are available at our discretion.
Is my information private?
Yes. What you share is used only to consider you for our clients’ searches. We don’t publish it, and we won’t share your contact information without asking you first.
Does joining guarantee an introduction?
No. Joining makes you eligible to be considered. It doesn’t promise an introduction, a date, or a match. We reach out only when we believe there’s a genuine fit with a specific client.
Can a parent, family member, or support person help me?
Yes. Many people fill it out with someone they trust. You can add a support person to be copied on messages about a potential match, and bring them to your screening conversation. The decision to join is yours.
Do you work with people all over the United States?
Yes. We’re based in the D.C. metro area, but the database is nationwide.
How is this different from Constellations or a matchmaking package?
The database makes you eligible to be considered for our clients; we’re not working on your behalf. Constellations is an ongoing membership with community, resources, gatherings, and consideration for introductions. A matchmaking package means you hire us: a dedicated matchmaker and coach search for you, with a guaranteed number of matches per six-month contract.
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