Constellations

by Harrington Matchmaking

Join Constellations to be considered for introductions and access member resources — without joining our waitlist or committing to a full-service Matchmaking and Coaching Package.

Kate Inez Harrington

Owner, Harrington Matchmaking

“We created Constellations to better serve the wider network we have built over many years. Harrington Matchmaking is proud to have one of the most extensive databases of singles who feel left behind by traditional dating, especially neurodivergent and disabled adults.

We understand that many adults and families are not ready for a traditional five-figure Matchmaking and Coaching Package. At the same time, our waitlist for one-on-one clients has continued to span several months.

This membership program offers a more accessible way to join our community. We meet each adult, create their community profile, consider them for introductions and welcome them into our events and member resources. We hope you’ll consider joining us.”

What Membership Includes

Introduction Opportunities

Each member’s community profile becomes part of the wider Harrington Matchmaking network. When we see a promising possibility, we contact the member privately to ask whether they would like to be introduced.

With permission, we may also share a member’s profile with matchmakers we trust, expanding the networks in which they may be considered.

Unlike a high-touch Matchmaking and Coaching Package, Constellations does not guarantee introductions.

Additional Benefits

Membership includes complimentary admission to eligible Harrington Matchmaking gatherings, including singles events and virtual programs.

Members also receive access to the members-only portal, where they can register for gatherings and explore dating and relationship resources. Discounted one-on-one coaching is available for members who want additional support.

Who is a Constellations for?

Our members, like our Matchmaking and Coaching clients, do not share one diagnosis, lifestyle or level of independence.

We like it that way.

Independent,
but Tired of Dating Apps

An neurodivergent or disabled adult who works full time, lives independently and has close friendships — but has struggled to turn dating-app conversations into actual dates and rarely moves past a first date.

Dating With Practical Support

An adult with an intellectual or developmental disability who works or volunteers part time and lives with family or in supported housing. A support person may help with logistics, while the adult makes their own dating decisions.

These examples represent the range of adults we serve.
Photographs do not depict current members.

Looking for Greater Visibility

An adult who does not use dating apps and does not go out often. They want matchmakers to know who they are and keep them in mind for potential introductions — without making the five-figure investment in a full-service Matchmaking Package.

We have the most members in the Washington, D.C. metro area, including Maryland and Virginia.
Second is major cities along the east coast.

Clarity is Kindness

We encourage clear and honest communication.

This means saying what you feel, what you want, and when something does not feel right.

Avoiding these conversations may feel easier at first, but it often leads to confusion or hurt later.

Being clear helps both people understand each other and respect each other’s boundaries.

Slow is Safe

Getting to know someone takes time.

We encourage our community to move slowly so they can notice how someone communicates, follows through, and treats them over time.

This helps you figure out if someone is kind, reliable, and safe to be around.

There is no need to rush into decisions. Taking things step by step helps build trust and leads to better, more stable relationships.

Pressure is Poison

When someone feels rushed, overwhelmed, or pushed, it becomes harder to connect and make good decisions.

We do not rush people into conversations, dates, or relationships.
You are allowed to take your time.

If something feels urgent, that is a sign to pause.

Healthy connection should feel calm, respectful, and not pressured.

Collaborative Process

Once they enroll, members meet with the Harrington Matchmaking team for a video call. We ask the questions, get to know you, and create their community profile as we talk — no long questionnaire required. We record our conversation and keep it confidential so that we can revisit it, even if matches don’t happen soon.

Most members attend independently. However, a parent or support person may join when helpful or if the member has higher support needs.

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Constellations Membership

Expert-Backed Content

We break things down into simple, manageable parts so you never feel overwhelmed. As you progress, you’ll develop both skill and self-assurance, one step at a time.

Build Confidence

Each lesson is designed to equip you with useful strategies you can immediately put into action. It’s about learning with purpose and seeing real results.

Gain Practical Tools

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Through thoughtful examples and guided exploration, you'll learn to approach obstacles with fresh eyes. This course is about unlocking flexibility, not following formulas.

Learn New Approaches

Whether you're starting out or revisiting the basics, you'll solidify core concepts while expanding into new territory. There’s room here to both grow and go deeper.

Strengthen Your Foundation

Consultation

Questions? Contact us or book a consultation.

This is a space to learn how Constellations works, ask questions, and align on communication, support, and expectations.

Ready to sign-up for Constellations? Click here.

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Your Questions, Answered

When you’re ready, please click here to submit your information and begin the onboarding process.
Both. When you join, you choose whether you are seeking:
·     Friendship only
·     Dating only
·     Both friendship and dating
There is no pressure to date. Many members join primarily for friendship and group coaching.
Constellations is open to adults (18+) of all ages, identities, and backgrounds.

Members join from across the U.S., Canada, the U.K., and beyond. We currently have the most members on the east coast of the United States and the majority of our in-person gatherings are in Washington, D.C., Maryland, and Virginia.

The program is LGBTQ+ inclusive and welcoming to ethically non-monogamous (ENM) and polyamorous individuals. However, the majority of our members identify as heterosexual.
Yes. If you are paying on someone else’s behalf, simply provide their email address at checkout.
They will receive the intake form and agreements directly and must complete them before access is granted.
Once you let us know you’d like to move forward, we’ll send you a Member Agreement via DocuSign for your electronic signature along with a link to complete payment.

Once the member agreement is signed, you’ll receive the intake form.

You’ll then be asked to book a New Member Welcome call.

You’ll meet with one of our team members and we’ll walk you through the member portal.
Within 48 hours of joining, you receive a detailed intake questionnaire where you indicate what you’re seeking (friends, dating, or both), along with preferences, boundaries, and logistics.
This information is used to identify potential mutual fits within the community.
No.
Constellations does not guarantee matches or introductions.
All introductions are optional and occur only when there is mutual fit and mutual interest.
For guaranteed matches, you’d have to sign up to become a matchmaking client and purchase personalized support.
No. Constellations is primarily virtual and open to members everywhere.
When there are others in your area and there is mutual interest, introductions can support in-person connection.

We currently have the most members in Washington, D.C., Maryland, Virginia, New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Ohio.
When a mutual fit is identified and both parties opt in, a matchmaker from Harrington Matchmaking facilitates the introduction by email and supports next steps.
$208 per month, billed annually at $2,500 a year.

Please be advised that our membership prices will be increasing January 1, 2027. Sign-up before that date to lock in current member pricing.
Private matchmaking includes guaranteed introductions and a dedicated, individualized search and cost typically begins in the five figures.
Constellations is a more accessible, community-centered alternative that combines structured social support with optional facilitated introductions.
Programming may include:
·     Virtual social hangouts and conversation-friendly meetups
·     Low-pressure speed-friending and speed-dating events
·     Guest speakers on communication, boundaries, dating, and social skills
·     Coaching resources and Zoom Q&As
·     Affinity groups (LGBTQ+, age-based, shared-identity or interest groups)
Every two weeks, members receive a newsletter that includes:
·     Upcoming virtual events for the next few weeks
·     New coaching resources and offerings
·     Direct links to sign up for anything that interests you
No. You may attend as much or as little as you’d like. Cameras and verbal participation are always optional. Quiet presence and observation are welcome.
All members sign a Community Agreement that includes:
·     Respectful, direct communication
·     Timely responses and follow-through
·     A no-ghosting pledge
·     Brief feedback after first meetings
·     Baseline safety standards
Yes.
If you would like a guardian or support person to be CC’d on correspondence, you can specify this in the member intake form.
You remain the primary member unless otherwise requested.
We take privacy seriously.
All information is stored securely and governed by our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service.
Information is used only for program participation, matching, and community operations.
That’s okay.
You do not need complete clarity to join.
Preferences can evolve, and there is no requirement to pursue introductions.