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Welcome to Harrington Matchmaking — we’re redefining what relationship support can look like for adults seeking meaningful, lasting connection.

Founded by Kate Inez Harrington, a nationally recognized voice in neurodivergent relationships, we specialize in concierge-level matchmaking and coaching for clients with unique life experiences, communication styles, or support needs. Our approach is collaborative, hands-on, and deeply personal — designed to empower not only the client, but their broader support system where beneficial.

We serve a limited number of clients at a time to ensure exceptional attention and care. Whether you're exploring dating for the first time or seeking a new chapter, we're here to help.

  • Matchmaking

    Learn more about our matchmaking services here.

  • Singles Database

    Learn more about joining our singles database here.

Testimonials

  • “Kate, our sessions have helped me realize how much I haven't been myself for the past three years. You helped me understand how I needed to shift my focus to caring for me before I could even start thinking of being a good partner to someone else. It's literally all thanks to talking with you. I finally feel like I'm making actual positive changes and in control of where I'm going.

    — EW, 20s

  • “I've worked with Kate for years. From the start she put me at ease when it felt like my life was spiraling out of control after the end of my decades long marriage. She’s a powerful "decoder" - helping me break down difficult situations and mapping out possible solutions. She has been a great help, allowing me to understand things that once felt beyond my grasp. I am extremely grateful to her."

    — MF, 50s

  • “Kate is amazing! I had been struggling with whether or not to leave a long, dysfunctional relationship and my sessions with her helped me finally make a decision. I returned to Kate later for coaching on how to start dating again because I felt like the whole dating world had changed since I was last in it. Kate helped me work through this stress and even connected me with others who were facing similar struggles.

    — CS, 40s

  • “Do coaching if you’re feeling really stuck or the same things keep happening and you don’t know why. Kate helped me break messy patterns that were causing a lot of stress.”

    — BM, 40s