When you’re ready, please click here to submit your information and begin the onboarding process.

Both. When you join, you choose whether you are seeking:

·     Friendship only

·     Dating only

·     Both friendship and dating

There is no pressure to date. Many members join primarily for friendship and group coaching.

Constellations is open to adults (18+) of all ages, identities, and backgrounds.

Members join from across the U.S., Canada, the U.K., and beyond. We currently have the most members on the east coast of the United States and the majority of our in-person gatherings are in Washington, D.C., Maryland, and Virginia.

The program is LGBTQ+ inclusive and welcoming to ethically non-monogamous (ENM) and polyamorous individuals. However, the majority of our members identify as heterosexual.

Yes. If you are paying on someone else’s behalf, simply provide their email address at checkout.
They will receive the intake form and agreements directly and must complete them before access is granted.

Once you let us know you’d like to move forward, we’ll send you a Member Agreement via DocuSign for your electronic signature along with a link to complete payment.

Once the member agreement is signed, you’ll receive the intake form.

You’ll then be asked to book a New Member Welcome call.

You’ll meet with one of our team members and we’ll walk you through the member portal.

Within 48 hours of joining, you receive a detailed intake questionnaire where you indicate what you’re seeking (friends, dating, or both), along with preferences, boundaries, and logistics.

This information is used to identify potential mutual fits within the community.

No.
Constellations does not guarantee matches or introductions.
All introductions are optional and occur only when there is mutual fit and mutual interest.
For guaranteed matches, you’d have to sign up to become a matchmaking client and purchase personalized support.

No. Constellations is primarily virtual and open to members everywhere.
When there are others in your area and there is mutual interest, introductions can support in-person connection.

We currently have the most members in Washington, D.C., Maryland, Virginia, New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Ohio.

When a mutual fit is identified and both parties opt in, a matchmaker from Harrington Matchmaking facilitates the introduction by email and supports next steps.

$208 per month, billed annually at $2,500 a year.

Please be advised that our membership prices will be increasing January 1, 2027. Sign-up before that date to lock in current member pricing.

Private matchmaking includes guaranteed introductions and a dedicated, individualized search and cost typically begins in the five figures.

Constellations is a more accessible, community-centered alternative that combines structured social support with optional facilitated introductions.

Programming may include:

·     Virtual social hangouts and conversation-friendly meetups

·     Low-pressure speed-friending and speed-dating events

·     Guest speakers on communication, boundaries, dating, and social skills

·     Coaching resources and Zoom Q&As

·     Affinity groups (LGBTQ+, age-based, shared-identity or interest groups)

Every two weeks, members receive a newsletter that includes:

·     Upcoming virtual events for the next few weeks

·     New coaching resources and offerings

·     Direct links to sign up for anything that interests you

No. You may attend as much or as little as you’d like. Cameras and verbal participation are always optional. Quiet presence and observation are welcome.

All members sign a Community Agreement that includes:

·     Respectful, direct communication

·     Timely responses and follow-through

·     A no-ghosting pledge

·     Brief feedback after first meetings

·     Baseline safety standards

Yes.
If you would like a guardian or support person to be CC’d on correspondence, you can specify this in the member intake form.
You remain the primary member unless otherwise requested.

We take privacy seriously.
All information is stored securely and governed by our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service.
Information is used only for program participation, matching, and community operations.

That’s okay.
You do not need complete clarity to join.
Preferences can evolve, and there is no requirement to pursue introductions.