Constellations

Constellations is a neurodivergent-affirming membership that supports adults in building friendships and romantic relationships.

It is designed for those who want thoughtful pacing and guidance — without the timeline or cost of a full-service matchmaking package.

“Our team hears from adults across the United States who are looking for support with dating, friendship, and feeling less alone.

For a long time, we were only able to work with a small number of private clients. That meant many who reached out didn’t have a clear next step.

With Constellations, we’ve created a more accessible and affordable way to connect — while still offering care and guidance through our member portal and coaching resources.”

Kate Inez Harrington

What does a Constellations membership include?

Guided workshops + resources

Virtual + in-person social gatherings

Discounted 1:1 coaching sessions

Free tickets to select social + singles events

Friend + dating match opportunities

Member Portal

When you join Constellations, you gain access to a private section of our website.

Onboarding Steps

You’ll receive the Constellations Member Agreement by email. Review and sign it electronically using DocuSign.

Sign Member Agreement

Step 1

After signing the agreement, you’ll receive a secure payment link to complete your $2,500 membership fee.

Pay Membership Fee

Step 2

Complete Intake Form

Step 3

You’ll receive a link to your detailed intake form. Take your time — this is how we get to know you, your lifestyle, and the types of connections you’re open to.

Schedule a 15-minute virtual welcome call with our team. We’ll help you access the member portal, walk you through how everything works, and answer any questions.

Schedule New Member Call

Step 4

Join Constellations

Constellations is a structured, supportive community for adults seeking connection — whether that’s friendship, dating, or simply feeling less alone.

You must be 18 years or older to join.

You’ll also have the option to include a support person during the intake process, if that’s helpful for you.

Your information is kept private and is only used to support your experience within the program.

How We Approach Dating

Clarity is Kindness

We encourage clear and honest communication.

This means saying what you feel, what you want, and when something does not feel right.

Avoiding these conversations may feel easier at first, but it often leads to confusion or hurt later.

Being clear helps both people understand each other and respect each other’s boundaries.

Slow is Safe

Getting to know someone takes time.

We encourage our community to move slowly so they can notice how someone communicates, follows through, and treats them over time.

This helps you figure out if someone is kind, reliable, and safe to be around.

There is no need to rush into decisions. Taking things step by step helps build trust and leads to better, more stable relationships.

Pressure is Poison

When someone feels rushed, overwhelmed, or pushed, it becomes harder to connect and make good decisions.

We do not rush people into conversations, dates, or relationships.
You are allowed to take your time.

If something feels urgent, that is a sign to pause.

Healthy connection should feel calm, respectful, and not pressured.

Parent Consultation

If you are a parent, guardian, or support person, we invite you to schedule a consultation.

This is a space to learn how Constellations works, ask questions, and align on communication, support, and expectations — while keeping your loved one’s independence at the center.

Book Consultation
Book Consultation

Meet Camilla

Camilla is one of our Constellations assistants, providing content designed for members that prefer more clear language.

Your Questions, Answered

  • Both. When you join, you choose whether you are seeking:

    ·     Friendship only

    ·     Dating only

    ·     Both friendship and dating

    There is no pressure to date. Many members join primarily for friendship and community.

  • Constellations is open to adults (18+) of all ages, identities, and backgrounds.
    Members join from across the U.S., Canada, the U.K., and beyond.
    The program is LGBTQ+ inclusive and welcoming to ethically non-monogamous (ENM) and polyamorous individuals.

  • Once you let us know you’d like to move forward, we’ll send you a Member Agreement via DocuSign for your electronic signature.

    Once the member agreement is signed, you’ll receive the intake form.

    You’ll then be asked to book a New Member Welcome call.

    You’ll meet with one of our team members and we’ll walk you through the member portal.

  • Within 48 hours of joining, you receive a detailed intake questionnaire where you indicate what you’re seeking (friends, dating, or both), along with preferences, boundaries, and logistics.

    This information is used to identify potential mutual fits within the community.

  • No.
    Constellations does not guarantee matches or introductions.
    All introductions are optional and occur only when there is mutual fit and mutual interest.
    For guaranteed matches, you’d have to sign up to become a matchmaking client and purchase personalized support.

  • No.
    Constellations is primarily virtual and open to members everywhere.
    When there are others in your area and there is mutual interest, introductions can support in-person connection.

  • When a mutual fit is identified and both parties opt in, a matchmaker from Harrington Matchmaking facilitates the introduction by email and supports next steps.

  • Private matchmaking includes guaranteed introductions and a dedicated, individualized search and cost typically begins in the five figures.

    Constellations is a more accessible, community-centered alternative that combines structured social support with optional facilitated introductions.

  • Programming may include:

    ·     Virtual social hangouts and conversation-friendly meetups

    ·     Low-pressure speed-friending and speed-dating events

    ·     Guest speakers on communication, boundaries, dating, and social skills

    ·     Coaching resources and Zoom Q&As

    ·     Affinity groups (LGBTQ+, age-based, shared-identity or interest groups)

  • Every two weeks, members receive a newsletter that includes:

    ·     Upcoming virtual events for the next few weeks

    ·     New coaching resources and offerings

    ·     Direct links to sign up for anything that interests you

  • No. You may attend as much or as little as you’d like. Cameras and verbal participation are always optional. Quiet presence and observation are welcome.

  • All members sign a Community Agreement that includes:

    ·     Respectful, direct communication

    ·     Timely responses and follow-through

    ·     A no-ghosting pledge

    ·     Brief feedback after first meetings

    ·     Baseline safety standards

  • Yes. If you are paying on someone else’s behalf, simply provide their email address at checkout.
    They will receive the intake form and agreements directly and must complete them before access is granted.

  • Yes.
    If you would like a guardian or support person to be CC’d on correspondence, you can specify this in the member intake form.
    You remain the primary member unless otherwise requested.

  • We take privacy seriously.
    All information is stored securely and governed by our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service.
    Information is used only for program participation, matching, and community operations.

  • That’s okay.
    You do not need complete clarity to join.
    Preferences can evolve, and there is no requirement to pursue introductions.

  • $208 per month, billed annually at $2,500 a year.