Constellations

Constellations is a neurodivergent-affirming membership that supports adults in building friendships and romantic relationships through a private member portal with coaching resources, workshops, and, when compatibility exists, matchmaker-facilitated member-to-member introductions. It is designed for those who want thoughtful pacing and guidance — without the timeline or cost of a full-service matchmaking package.

“For years, I’ve received messages from adults asking for help with dating, friendship, and feeling less alone. I wanted to say yes to everyone — but the reality is, I can only take on so many private clients. Constellations grew out of that tension. I wanted to offer something more accessible and inclusive.” — Kate Inez Harrington

Constellations isn’t personalized matchmaking — it’s a living community of resources and opportunities for connection. Members move at their own pace, grounded in a thoughtful intake process.

Membership

We offer different membership levels + services so you can select the support, community, and guidance that works best for you.

Constellations Membership

Members receive support and community through the Constellations member portal. Membership includes access to resources, group programming, and curated opportunities for friendship and dating — grounded in a thoughtful intake and mutual compatibility assessed by our matchmaking team, never algorithms or pressure.

Includes:

✓ Guided workshops + resources
✓ Thoughtful friend + dating introductions (based on compatibility; not guaranteed)
✓ Virtual + in-person gatherings
✓ Discounted 1:1 coaching sessions
✓ Access to the Constellations member portal + private community

Constellations Community Member

This tier includes all core Constellations membership benefits except curated friend and dating introductions. Members who are seeking facilitated introductions may upgrade at any time.This annual membership is ideal for adults seeking self-development and community — without facilitated match introductions.

Includes:

✓ Guided workshops + coaching resources
✓ Virtual + in-person member gatherings
✓ Discounted 1:1 coaching sessions
✓ Access to the member portal + private community

Singles Database Membership

Not interested in Constellations? This option is for adults who want to be considered for curated introductions with Harrington Matchmaking clients — without joining the Constellations community. You’ll be required to sign a database member agreement form regarding confidentiality and safety, participate in a zoom call with our team, along with filling out a detailed intake so we get to know you and what you're seeking in a romantic partner.

This option offers visibility, not guarantees.

✓ Singles Database Lifetime Membership

✓ Eligibility: Match with our clients

Sign-Up

What happens after I join Constellations?

Once you register, you’ll receive a welcome email with an invitation to a thoughtful intake document so we can get to know you and the connections you’re seeking. You’ll be invited into our private virtual space, begin receiving invitations to workshops and gatherings, and gain access to resources and discounted private coaching.

From the start, you’ll be supported with clear guidance and opportunities to grow at your own pace.

Questions? Read our FAQ below.

Your Questions, Answered

  • Both. When you join, you choose whether you are seeking:

    ·     Friendship only

    ·     Dating only

    ·     Both friendship and dating

    There is no pressure to date. Many members join primarily for friendship and community.

  • Constellations is open to adults (18+) of all ages, identities, and backgrounds. Members join from across the U.S., Canada, the U.K., and beyond. The program is LGBTQ+ inclusive and welcoming to ethically non-monogamous (ENM) and polyamorous individuals.

  • Step one is to purchase your membership. After checkout, you’ll receive the intake questionnaire and Member Agreement by email within 48 hours. Access is granted once all forms are completed and signed.

  • Within 48 hours of joining, you receive a detailed intake questionnaire where you indicate what you’re seeking (friends, dating, or both), along with preferences, boundaries, and logistics.

    This information is used to identify potential mutual fits within the community.

  • No. Constellations does not guarantee matches or introductions. All introductions are optional and occur only when there is mutual fit and mutual interest. For guaranteed matches, you’d have to sign up to become a matchmaking client and purchase personalized support.

  • No. Constellations is primarily virtual and open to members everywhere. When there are others in your area and there is mutual interest, introductions can support in-person connection.

  • When a mutual fit is identified and both parties opt in, a matchmaker from Harrington Matchmaking facilitates the introduction by email and supports next steps.

  • Private matchmaking includes guaranteed introductions and a dedicated, individualized search and cost typically begins in the five figures.

    Constellations is a more accessible, community-centered alternative that combines structured social support with optional facilitated introductions.

  • Programming may include:

    ·     Virtual social hangouts and conversation-friendly meetups

    ·     Low-pressure speed-friending and speed-dating events

    ·     Guest speakers on communication, boundaries, dating, and social skills

    ·     Coaching resources and Zoom Q&As

    ·     Affinity groups (LGBTQ+, age-based, shared-identity or interest groups)

  • Every two weeks, members receive a newsletter that includes:

    ·     Upcoming virtual events for the next few weeks

    ·     New coaching resources and offerings

    ·     Direct links to sign up for anything that interests you

  • No. You may attend as much or as little as you’d like. Cameras and verbal participation are always optional. Quiet presence and observation are welcome.

  • All members sign a Community Agreement that includes:

    ·     Respectful, direct communication

    ·     Timely responses and follow-through

    ·     A no-ghosting pledge

    ·     Brief feedback after first meetings

    ·     Baseline safety standards

  • Yes. If you are paying on someone else’s behalf, simply provide their email address at checkout. They will receive the intake form and agreements directly and must complete them before access is granted.

  • Yes. If you would like a guardian or support person to be CC’d on correspondence, you can specify this in the member intake form. You remain the primary member unless otherwise requested.

  • We take privacy seriously. All information is stored securely and governed by our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service. Information is used only for program participation, matching, and community operations.

  • That’s okay. You do not need complete clarity to join. Preferences can evolve, and there is no requirement to pursue introductions.

  • Yes. A lower-cost, sliding-scale community-only membership (no facilitated introductions) is available for $750/annually.

  • $208 per month, billed annually ($2,500/year).
    Sliding-scale community-only options (no match introductions) are available.