Calm, clear, and compassionate support — when you need it most.
This page offers extra support when you need it.
These services are not included in your membership and are paid options.
We recommend starting with what’s already included — like articles, workshops, or the FAQ page.
If you want more support, you can explore the options below.
How You Can Get Support
You don’t have to choose right away.
Take your time — we’re here to help.
Coaching Sessions
Talk through challenges in a private conversation with a Constellations coach.
Best if something feels confusing, overwhelming, or keeps happening again.
Hands-On Help
Get help with what to say, how to show up, planning dates, or figuring out next steps.
Best if you want support getting ready or making a plan.
Support by Text
Ask quick questions and get guidance by text when something comes up.
Best if you have a question and don’t want to wait.
“Coaching works!”
“When I first started working with Kate during trade school, I was surrounded by couples and felt like I was missing out. I wanted a relationship so badly that I rushed into one while we were working together. At first it felt exciting, but over time I lost myself. I started neglecting my friendships, my family, and even parts of my routine.
Kate helped me slow down and really look at what was happening. It wasn’t easy to face. It took time, and honestly, a lot of discomfort, to step away from that toxic relationship and rebuild. What changed everything wasn’t just dating advice — it was learning how to take care of myself. Through her guidance and the community she created, I rebuilt friendships, found my footing again, and started to feel like myself again. I still want a relationship, but I’m no longer chasing it at the cost of everything else. I feel more grounded, more confident, and at peace with where I am — and that’s something I didn’t have before. It’s awesome.”
— LP, 23, Maryland
If you want more help with something specific, here are some options.
Click the + next to each item to see more details.
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Simple, personalized prompts to help you get started and keep a conversation going. This is tailored to you based on your Constellations intake form and, when relevant, the person you’re planning to meet.
Examples may include:
how to start a first date conversation
how to keep a conversation going naturally
how to change topics without it feeling awkward
personalized suggestions for topics
This offers clear structure, so you don’t have to guess what to say next.
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Help making a simple plan for a date or meetup.
We can help you:
choose a location
decide what to do
plan timing and logistics
think through what to expect
This is helpful if planning feels stressful or you’re not sure what the “right” next step is.
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A session with an image consultant helps you feel more comfortable and prepared with how you look for a date, social event, or presentation.
You can get help with:
what to wear
outfit ideas using what you already have
simple, repeatable combinations
a short shopping list, if needed
You can also build a clear getting-ready or pre-date routine, including grooming and hygiene and suggested products.
The goal is not to change your style — just to make things simpler and easier.
Sessions are booked separately. This can be an in-person or virtual offering. Click here to get started.
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Professional photography can help you present yourself more clearly and confidently across platforms — including your Constellations profile.
We offer guidance on what works best and access to trusted photographers.
In the Washington, D.C. area, we also offer complimentary portrait opportunities for members approximately every six months.
Sessions are booked separately. This is an in-person offering. Click here to get started.
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When booking your coaching session, you’ll have the option to add session notes.
This can help you:remember what you learned
review next steps
come back to things later
We’ll also include additional resource recommendations. These notes are helpful if you process information better when you can read it again.
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This option is designed for members who like texting and want consistent support without scheduling coaching sessions.
You can send messages as needed, and a coach will often respond the same day.
Sign up here.
These are optional. If something here feels helpful, you can ask us about it. We’ll walk you through next steps.